Networking for People Who Hate Networking.

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Missed Our Latest Session on Networking for People Who Hate Networking? Here’s What You Missed!

We recently hosted a FEDSA session that hit home for many – “Networking for People Who Hate Networking”, led by community systems strategist Candice @ Candid Collab. If you’ve ever broken out in a sweat at the thought of making small talk or worried you don’t “network right,” this one was made for you.

In today’s tech climate – where jobs are scarcer and opportunities often come through people – networking isn’t just a nice-to-have; it’s a survival skill. But what if you’re neurodivergent, introverted, or just completely over forced smiles and awkward intros? Candice gets it, and this talk is full of practical advice for making connections more human and way less stressful.

What Was Covered?

Candice unpacked a new perspective on networking – not as something you fake your way through, but something you can do on your terms, even if you’re shy, neurodivergent, or socially drained. She introduced her SAFE Framework, shared her personal journey from socially anxious teen to prolific speaker, and offered down-to-earth strategies to build meaningful professional relationships without selling your soul.

Plus, there was a good dose of humour, real talk about rejection, and shared horror stories that made everyone feel a little less alone.

Key Takeaways:

• Build a Network That Suits You: The “SAFE” framework encourages you to Set a purpose, Ask better questions, Face one fear at a time, and Elevate your environment. It’s a model built for real people, not extroverted unicorns.

• It’s OK to Be Awkward: You don’t need to “fix” yourself to connect with others. Focus on finding your people – those who meet you with generosity, not judgment.

• Questions Are Your Superpower: Prepping a few interesting, non-boring questions can make any conversation richer – and save you from defaulting to “So, what do you do?”

• You Don’t Have to Do It All In Person: Candice highlighted how online communities, async mentorships, and even WhatsApp groups can be powerful low-stimulation containers for connection.

• Permission to Protect Your Energy: If an event or interaction doesn’t feel right – leave. Curate spaces, tools (hello, earplugs and exits), and goals that match your nervous system.

Watch the full event on YouTube and take your data validation game to the next level.

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